Family ties...

Something to share with you.. maybe you have come across this before.. its an ancient prediction chart for gender of baby.. not sure how true it is but it was proven to be 99% true.. haha!!

download chart here: BOY_GIRL_CHART

Recently saw alot of preggies ladies.. times have change and you can see that being pregnant can also be so beautiful.. but life is so unfair... ladies are always the one suffering from the start til the end.. from being pregnant all the way til giving birth, then taking care of them, etc.. most Daddies are the ones playing with them, and throw back to their wife when baby cries.. sounds like you?? hehe..

Besides that, babies surname always take after Daddy.. to parents, daughter's child is always consider a "wai sun" which means "external" grandchild... Only child of son is consider "nei sun" which means like "internal" grandchild as they takes son's surname.. so sad right??

Another old thinking: daughter whom is married out is consider a pail of water thrown out.. i dunno how true it was for the rest, but my family let me feels it this way.. always say we want Husband and dun want parents.. i feel very very hurting when i heard these wordings.. im not sure if my parents will happen to see this blog of mine, but i still would like to say to them that i have never stopped loving them (although im not staying with you all, that doesnt mean we dun want you!!), no matter where i am and my house doors are always open if they ever need a shelter, will welcome them with warm open arms.. :)

Too bad, they relies alot on my brother.. thinking that only he will want to take care of them.. old people likes to assume things.. especially when they are very stubborn and refused to change their thinking... communication is always obstructed by these thinkings.. sigh, really hope one day, they will realised daughters also love them, daughters also wanna share moments of life with them, daughters are not thrown away water...

As i see them age from day to day, i realise time really passes so quickly.. my parents have actually live this lifetime with 3 children who loves them so much, 2 already married, one getting ready too... with a warm home sheltering them, plus Ah Gong and Ah Ma blessings.. seeing them live through the hard time and the sweetest time together, I know they still have a long live to go, seeing all children growing old together and enjoying the bless of grandchild hugs and cuddles (which are the biggest wish of them now.. hehe..!!)

being parents and daughter in this lifetime, i always treasure it.. we might have this lifetime together and next lifetime is a question mark.. thus i really treasure parents of mine.. hope they do too..

My family, my hubby and my friends..

i will always treasure all of them..